Abuses, Women & Chivalry

My HVE professor pointed out the fact that we shouldn’t use abusive language when around girls (he also tried to make a point out of not using at all but that is just not possible for some of us ), but the class seemed to disagree, by stating that girls use it themselves , but even from a basic sense courtesy we shouldn’t use such language , before you start pointing out inherent exceptions to the case ,just wait a moment and hear me out , like I am not talking about using abuses among your friends , or even by accident in an heated argument with another person. And neither am I saying that either the girls can’t handle abuses or aren’t frequent users of it itself. It’s about respecting the other person enough that you dint hurl abuses in their surroundings as an example Your parents, teachers, e.t.c . I’m also not talking about it in a specific relationship environment but more about your surroundings and environment in general , as the world isn’t a kind place to everyone which makes it more important to show courtesy , respect to the people we meet. This isn’t always easy and it takes a little bit of time and effort out of life to accomplish, which is why it is considered chivalrous of someone to do. Chivalry means doing something good for someone without asking for a reward. You don't have to be as heroic as rescuing someone from a burning building or jumping in front of a bullet for someone. It's as easy as making someone smile when you know you're having a bad day. I’d like to say knowing the amount of problems you go through on a daily basis, if you didn’t sing an abuses and it made even a bit better for another person doesn’t matter if they are male, female, young or old wouldn’t it feel nice, to provide even a sense of calmness in this hectic and fast running world is a task of ultimate respect and chivalry.